my little girl had Terrible Nightmare!

yesterday midnight around 3am

I guess my little girl had a Terrible Nightmare

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suddenly, she shout & cry " I DON'T WANT! I DON'T WANT! "

and she straight away lift up her head but eyes still closed

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then, I immediately bring her up to our bed...

and hug her tightly..

I can feel her heartbeat running super fast..

i calmed her down by telling her, DON'T SCARED,

DADDY MUMMY HERE WITH YOU!

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slowly slowly, she stop crying..

then she sleep back...

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a little while more she cry again...

and i ask her :Yan, what happen??? tell mummy what happen?

what you don't want???"

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she wait a while, then she reply me :"I DON'T WANT NEW BED"

i ask her "WHY???"

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she said " Dirty ma, after Mummy wash ah ok? nevermind"

so cute...

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then i just let her sleep with us lo...

meantime she cry and sleep cry and sleep..

i also didn't get to sleep well

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I WONDER WHAT DREAM SHE HAD???

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Poling !!!

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my girl no need Pampers dy!

my girl now is 2 years 2 months old..

and she Don't Need PAMPERS anymore during daytime

only during sleeping time

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she will tell when she wanna go POO POO or Shee Shee...

when you ask her:" YAN, WHAT YOU WEAr?"

she will answer you" PANTIES lo, Mummy buy one"

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past few days, her Gong Gong brought her to nearby Playground

half way playing she wanna shee shee...

but she didnt shee shee on her pant

& also don't want to shee shee on the grass

she can tahan & walk back to shee shee

then go back playground and play

so cute :-)

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so proud of my girl :-)

my girl go Hair Salon

today as usual, after wash hair for my little girl

I tell her; OK, let's go Hair Salon (means blow hair)

after done, we go downstair...

and her Gong Gong touch her hair & said

:" Wah, wash hair dy ah, Mei Mei oh"

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GUESS WHAT MY LITTLE GIRL SAID???

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""DON'T TOUCH MY HAIR,

I JUST COME BACK FROM HAIR SALON!""

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HAHAHA

you say la, nowadays the kids sai mm sai lei???

Conception Chart

still remember on my previous post

about having BB #2...

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I have to make sure the 2nd one is A BOY...

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here the chart....

it's very accurate based on last time i conceived my YAN YAN

during our Honeymoon in USA on OCT

that time i'M AGE 27..IT'S A GIRL

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so this time, IF i want A BOY

I MUST CONCEIVE ON OCTOBER THIS YEAR AS WELL

we did decide during our coming BANGKOK trip

9 oct - 14 oct 2008

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BUT

NOW THE PLAN HAS BEEN CANCELLED.....
not trip cancel BUT plan to have BB # 2 cancelled!

reasons:

#1-----> MAIN REASON; I'M VERY WEAK & NOT HEALTHY

since back from our HONG KONG TRIP,

after my Girl got the food poisoning

she loose weight...so in the middle of the night i have to wake up

& make milk for her to gain back her weight

until now, she still ask for milk in the middle of the night

coz already get used to it..

so every night, I'LL wait til about 1 or 2am feed her one time

before i go to zzzzzzz....

about 5am feed her another time..then 8am one time...

so normally i only have 4 hours sleeping time...

that's really not enough for me..

I NEED A STRAIGHT 8 HOURS SLEEPING TIME...

that's why sometimes i'll said I MISS MY SINGLE LIFE

i can have a straight 8 hours sleep time without any interuption :-)

and i tell you I'M REALLY SUPER DUPER TIRED NOW!

so in this condition

HOW AM I GOING TO HAVE BB #2???

MAYBE WHEN MY GIRL TURN 3 first LO...

reason # 2

my girl also don't want to go to TASKA

she keep sticking to me

i'm not dare to take the risk of miscarriage

in the condition she keep wanna me to carry her

reason # 3

my hubby is busy with his new business

so i will get less attention from him during my pregnancy

so I'LL GIVE HIM ONE YEAR TIME :-)

my girl

my GIRL...:-)

cousin wedding

Chinese the 15th of August

Moon Festival is a very good date for any kind of celebration

my Cousin Brother also married on this day

WISH THEM LOVE FOREVER :-)

Today is CHINESE the 15th of AUGUST

MOONCAKE Festival

also is OUR 3rd WEDDING ANNIVERSARY

also my Sis in Law 1st Wedding Anniversary

and my FIL & MIL's 28th Wedding Anniversary

i would like to wish ALL OF US...

HAPPY WEDDING ANNIVERSARY

and may all of us HAPPY FOREVER

AND LOVE FOREVER

I LOVE YOU MY DARLING

THANKS FOR BEING HERE WITH ME all this while

You are the ONLY ONE that I'LL LOVE FOREVER

other than my parents la...:-)

Mooncake Festival

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My chinese birthday

today 10.09.2008

is my CHINESE BIRTHDAY

11TH OF AUGUST

according to chinese calendar

I'M 30 Years old...:-( (so old dy)

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this is the sms my mum sent me early in the morning

and my Mum thought of celebrating it with me tonight

& My dear sis will buy KFC to celebrate with me

but lucky i & my darling's friends already plan to go for movie

i don't want to celebrate...

i don't want it to make it til so kuar jiong

i don't want ppl to waste money just because of me

but i know they all sayang me...

THANKS MY DEAR DAD & MUM & MY DEAR SIS

my bao bei

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my little girl don't want to go Taska again this morning

she cried til so "cham"

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stay in the car don't want to go down

keep saying : I WANT TO GO HOME!"

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so i have to keep on persuade her inside the car to go out the car

Teacher ask whether want her help to bring her down or not?

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FIL told Teacher that she's very smart girl

not like others kids "sor kang kang" cry then stop..

and it's not the time yet for us to send her in

scared we frighten her til "sot jor"

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conclusion is :

NOT TO SENT HER TO TEACHER LENA ANYMORE!

HERE is the SMS the teacher sent to me few days ago

i can see she's very dissapointed on our decision

coz she really love my daughter

but ......:-(

alot of my friends also advise me to let her cried for a week

then everything will be alright

as every kids is the same one

not used to new environment sure will cry one

I DO THINK SO....

so.....

Hubby & FIL said maybe this taska got something that really frighten her

maybe will try another Taska nearby our house

since she also doesn't want ah Sean Gor Gor anymore

no need purposely travel so far &

stuck in the jam for an hour every morning

preparation for coming Lantern Festival

my sweetheart :-)

today didn't send my little to tadika again

coz again she cry ..

this afternoon she taking her nap in the office

suddenly she cried & said :"I DON'T WANT GO TEACHER LENA THERE"

then sleep back again

is this the sign that we shouldn't send her go tadika again???

Today My little girl don't want to go Tadika dy

once reach the junction to the Tadika

she already told me: I DON'T WANT GO TEACHER LENA THERE"

with some tears in her eyes...

so mai bring her to office lo...

as my FIL said Yan Yan is smarter than other kids

she know what is happening and going on

this forcing method cannot apply to her

he said this way will disturb her emotion & maybe will make her "sot"

but the Teacher Lena later on, she called me

she said every kids will have to go throught this stage

it might take about a week times

after this should be no problem dy

for us, we will feel very heart pain see her like that

for them, they more difficult coz they need to "tam" and carry her when she's cry

but she said if we don't try , she'll never learn to independent

and if we send her when she's 3 or 4 years old

also the same, she will cry like this

better send early ...but she said it's up to us la

but i really no comment!

the time now is 11.58pm...

just finish comforting my bao bei to sleep

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today, she's very stick to me after we pick her up at tadika at 1pm

when she saw me, she cry...... and i also cry.....:-(

I REALLY CANNOT TAHAN MY TEARS....

IT'S SO HEART PAIN to see my little girl like that...

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when on the way back to the office, she's sitting there holding her bag

telling me with her pity look

:"MUMMY, I SIT LIKE THAT, WAITING FOR MUMMY"

she's showing me the way she sit & holding her bag

while waiting for me to pick her up in tadika

so poor girl....my tears also drop down dy :-(

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so she stick to me like super glue (according to the daddy)

the whole day in the office

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when come home

bring her to the bedroom as usual

today she don't want to stay in the room

she told me : I WANT GO DOWN...I WANT SIT SOFA THERE"

oklo..i bring her down....she keep teh bao me....only ME...

even daddy and po po also don't want...

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and i ask her..."YAN, tomorrow u want to go tadika ? teacher Lena there?

she bin zhui & nearly wanna cry and answer me...: I DON'T WANT!

and she hug me tight tight

SO POOR GIRL......:-(

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at 1st I thought was ok..

the 1st day without me

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----she cry & she know to take her towel from her bag & wipe her tears then put back the towel....

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2nd day ---

only cry little bit...somemore can tell teacher..mummy come later ah...

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3rd day

------she cry and she vomit.....but when i pick me up she didn't cry

somemore tell the teacher i come tommorrow ah...somemore can hug teacher tight tight & kiss

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4th day---beh sai liao......

cry..vomit....come home like having nightmare like that....

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HOW ???

WHAT SHOULD I DO ???

I'M SO SAD THIS MORNING

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when sending my daughter to Tadika

she's seems like know that I'm going to leave her there

once reach Tadika, she still follow me go down the car

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but when I'm bringing her into the class

she start cry and dun want to let me go

hug me tight tight..

til teacher Lena wanna carry her she dun want

and she cry cry cry til vomit...

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then Kakak bring her to clean up

and Teacher Lena ask us to go back lo...:-(

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when on the way back to the office..

I CAN'T STOP MY TEARS from dropping down

coz i find it's a bit cruel to treat her like that

I FEEL SO SORRY for her dump her alone there :-(

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but as for my darling..

he said if we not try, she will forever depent on us

& learn nothing

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but i don't know la...

I FEEL SO DOWN NOW!

just waiting for time to pass to go pick her up at 1pm

I LOVE YOU MY BAO BEI :-)

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